NO LONGER A VICTIM

This confronts the reality that people often deflect blame for their situations onto others, especially in the context of parenting and personal experiences.

I understand that many parents overlook their influence on their children’s lives, and countless children grown to adulthood refuse to take responsibility for their actions.

This pattern of blame-shifting obstructs personal growth and stifles self-awareness.

I have learned the powerful role that constructive criticism plays in our lives, and I recognise the importance of being mindful of others' feelings.

It is crucial to be aware of the sensitivity of those around us, and effective communication is key to avoiding unnecessary conflicts.

Keeping interactions simple can lead to more meaningful connections.

During my first vulnerable time in 2011, I unwittingly became involved with a cult following my discharge from a mental health facility. That was a lesson learned, and I emerged stronger.

After experiencing the profound loss of my Beloved Father in February 2017, years later I found myself in challenging situations where I made poor choices and knowingly felt emotionally detached.

Eventually, I surrendered everything to my higher power and took control of my life.

I made the bold decision to reject the victim mindset and prioritise my journey of self-love and healing.

I am fully committed to enhancing my mental, emotional, and physical well-being, and I am now open to the idea of a relationship.

Previously, I vowed to avoid romance to protect others from my cold demeanour.

However, I have dedicated myself to personal growth and now confidently embrace my capacity to love.

I envision a partnership that is balanced and grounded in shared high standards and values.

I appreciate the opportunity for companionship, all while fiercely maintaining my newfound strength and independence.

In everything, there must be a balance.

Natalie M Bleau

Scripture of Balance